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Inspired Theme for 2007:
3 Simple Steps to Set the Stage for a Satisfying Year
By Sue Brenner, PCC, PMP
What do you want 2007 to be like? Do you want it to
include more of some things? More happiness, fitness, fun... Do you
want it to include less of some things? Less sitting at your desk,
working too late, debt...
Pause for a moment to tap into the magic of what 2007 could be for
you. Before racing toward your goals, consider this question: What
flavor, texture or theme do you want 2007 to represent?
Here's how to capture your theme for the New Year. Imagine life and
work unfolding in the days and months to come. Then choose one word
to encompass the whole year. A word that pulls you out of bed each
morning and motivates you to embrace the day.
Take Sarah, for example. A few years ago she chose the word
"enriched" as her theme. At the time, she faced tough challenges. A
fellow tenant in a shared office suite appeared to be on the edge of
a nervous breakdown. He went into daily rants and rages, terrifying
all of his office mates. The police were called on at least one
occasion.
Sarah and her office mates rallied together to strategize and offer
each other daily support. They made sure no one was ever alone with
the man. They jointly asked the manager to evict him.
But because the man stayed in the office for a few more weeks, Sarah
needed something to anchor her so she wouldn't get lost in a
turbulent sea. Her theme emerged - "enriched." On the surface, she
didn't consider her work circumstances enriching. But picking a
theme calmed her down. It gave her hope that her work life could be
that way again.
It took some discipline to even whisper the word "enriched" each day
- and on a few days she chucked the word right out the window. But
mostly she stuck to saying the word "enriched" continuously
throughout the day.
Sarah did pull through the situation. After some prompting, the man
finally agreed to leave. The locks were changed immediately. Sarah
didn't even mind too much when she arrived at work the Monday after
the man's departure and the office was completely bare. He'd taken
everything with him - from chairs to shelves, plants and paper
clips. Everything. A client of Sarah's arrived five minutes later.
So, she offered the lone fold-up chair she'd found in the hallway,
and sat on a crate herself. Humbling, yes, but also freeing. Sarah
remembers: "In that moment, I felt truly enriched. Like I could
handle anything. Who cares if I had to suck it up and sit on a milk
crate? It was over. He was gone and I moved on with my day." After
the client left, Sarah settled into the quiet calm that softened the
office.
Even during adversity, your theme for 2007 can make your year
better. Another professional singled out the word "dimension" for
her year. Why? She wanted to experience more depth and fun with her
ordinary, everyday tasks. So when she sets out to write a business
report, why not write it at the beach since she lives in a
tropical place! My editor sent me her theme today inspired from this
article: "investment." From dictionary.com she chose this meaning:
"A devoting, using, or giving of time, talent, emotional energy,
etc., as for a purpose or to achieve something." Ready to create
your own theme?
What word pops to mind as your theme for the year? Try this
three-step process to define your inspired theme for 2007.
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Select your theme.
Dream up two or three possible
theme words for the year. Pick unusual words that you don't use
often. Write them down quickly and intuitively - don't think too
much about it! If your brain freezes, try some of these words:
Inspired. Extraordinary. Uplifted. Enriched. Intentional.
Divine. Spontaneous. Graceful. Playful. Monumental. If a
thousand people pick the same word, that's OK. Each of you will
bring your own personal flair to that theme. Now, narrow your
short list down to a single word.
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Define your theme.
Once you've selected your theme,
define what it means to you. Look the word up. Try a site such
as dictionary.com to gain a fresh perspective on the different
meanings. For example, consider the word "spontaneous." When you
look it up you'll find the standard definitions about doing
things in the moment and being unplanned. But scan further and
another definition emerges: "Growing naturally or without
cultivation, as plants and fruits; indigenous" (dictionary.com).
As you define your word, imagine what it would actually look,
feel and sound like for this word to spice up your day-to-day
life.
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Live your theme.
Just as if you've tucked this
word into your pocket, live your theme every day. Say it first
thing in the morning. Repeat it often during the day, especially
if you feel stressed. Of course, life will deal you what it
deals you. When setbacks occur you may want to put your theme
temporarily aside. Or you might discover you can find your theme
even in challenging life experiences. Whatever you face, allow
your theme to bring forth what you desire most in 2007.
Take time now to complete this three-step exercise.
Remember - select, define and live your inspired theme. Create a
compelling theme and then step into the New Year with a refreshing
focus. Happy New Year!
For a step-by-step report on how to set and achieve compelling
five-year and one-year goals, check out How to Set Goals That Stick
at http://www.ignitepress.com.
Copyright © 2008 Sue Brenner
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